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02-08-2018 08:09 PM
02-08-2018 08:09 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Thanks also @Smc
S2 a little more settled. He received some pastoral support at school today as did a number of other students who have been suffering in silence. I have a meeting with the principal on Monday afternoon. He is actually sick tonight so may have the day off school tomorrow, see how we go.
We have another house inspection tomorrow. Hopefully something may come of that.
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02-08-2018 08:11 PM
02-08-2018 08:11 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Had mum and sister over for our usual Thursday night dinner and was amazed when mum announced that there was another dry spell coming 🤬🤐
One would think she should know by now that Darling is anxious about water levels even in the midst of a flood. She is particularly anxious at the moment.
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03-08-2018 10:35 PM
03-08-2018 10:35 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Even the thought of having to maintain a place for inspection is enough to send shivers down my spine @Determined so can only imagine how it would be with 3 young ones. Will keep praying.
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04-08-2018 08:14 AM
04-08-2018 08:14 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Thanks @Former-Member
Another open house this morning.
Darling is doing a great job keeping on top of things despite all of the anxiety.
Boys are helping above average as they are keen to move. Proves they can do it when they want to.
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05-08-2018 08:56 PM
05-08-2018 08:56 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
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06-08-2018 09:50 AM
06-08-2018 09:50 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Hi @Former-Member
No news on the house front, plenty of interest but no one ready to sign up 😞
Both our puppies were home for the weekend but going back to Mums this afternoon, looking forward to having them back permanent 🙂
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06-08-2018 10:27 AM
06-08-2018 10:27 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Other than that it has been a rather bumpy weekend for us.
The stress of waiting for a buyer it seems is getting too much for my Darling. Hate to say it but she is acting like a spoiled child at the moment. Causing damage around the house is not what we need when we are trying to sell it
Then to add to the anxiety her parents were telling us yesterday about all of the people in the street ordering water at the moment. Then mum asked will we have to fill the water tanks before we leave. Nothing like making my life more difficult. Looks like I will be back to checking tank water levels daily until it rains again despite combined tanks being above 75% capacity. Not a difficult task, just irritates me when it is unnecessary.
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06-08-2018 11:32 AM
06-08-2018 11:32 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Unless agreed I don't think you would need to have tanks filled before leaving @Determined
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06-08-2018 02:19 PM - edited 06-08-2018 02:23 PM
06-08-2018 02:19 PM - edited 06-08-2018 02:23 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
I wasn't worried @Former-Member as I dont think it is a problem. I Just cant believe it was mentioned in front of my darling 😕, one more conversation I now have to manage. Those closest to us all know that water and rain are taboo topics around my darling. (And that is as much about me managing my anxiety as my darlings... I simply can't cope with her constant talking about the water in a state of anxiety).
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06-08-2018 04:37 PM
06-08-2018 04:37 PM